
Recently, I wrote about reasons that kids love to train Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
But not every kid loves to train BJJ. In fact, a lot of them quit.
Recently, we surveyed many of our readers and found 7 reasons that kids will quit training BJJ.
Try to avoid these things if you want your child to be successful in BJJ:
1. Criticism and yelling – There’s a huge difference between cheering and criticizing.
2. No playing time – Kids need time to play. They “train” very differently from adults
3. Over emphasis on winning – Focus on what they did well. Not just if they won or lost.
4. Poor communication – Make them feel comfortable letting you know what they think or how they feel about BJJ.
5. Fear of making mistakes – Mistakes are okay. And so is losing. As long as they learn! Make sure they know that.
6. Boredom – For kids, BJJ has to be just as much about fun as it is hard training. Jumping around, doing tumbling drills, and grappling games are all part of them learning about their bodies. Adults can’t sit and drill an armbar for 30 minutes straight. Don’t expect kids to!
7. Not learning – Don’t be afraid to go over with your child what they went over in class. Let them show you what they learned. If they aren’t learning, they won’t enjoy it.