Keep your goals and expectations realistic.
Just because your child is good at BJJ now doesn’t mean she will excel (or even participate) later in life.
Is your goal to develop a well-rounded adult?
Or, are you hoping to have college paid for through sports?
If you believe your goal is helping your child earn a college athletics scholarship (maybe in judo or wrestling) or compete in BJJ professionally, you
may want to dip your toe in the cold pool of reality with these numbers:
- First, the most simple math: There are nearly 7 million boys and girls who play high school sports. There are only 126,000 NCAA student-athletes who receive either a partial or a full athletics scholarship. That means about 1 in 56 high school athletes will have the opportunity to translate their athletics success into financial assistance.
- According to the NCAA’s most recent data, only 126,000 out of the estimated 350,000 NCAA student-athletes received either full or partial athletics scholarships.
- In all but the most high-profile sports, scholarships are divided up and spread among many different student-athletes.
What this means in terms of BJJ is that it’s HIGHLY unlikely that your child (just by statistics and numbers) will be a world champion at any belt level.
Even if paying for college is your goal, you might want to focus on your child’s biology scores instead of her scissor sweep. If you compare total funds available for academic scholarships vs. athletics scholarships, you’ll find that much more money is available for academics.
In fact, some educators have estimated hat there are 30 times more scholarship dollars available for college academic scholarships than there are athletics scholarships.
Don’t get me wrong, I’d love for my son to be the next Cobrinha, but I’m not putting all of my eggs in that basket ^_^